Joerg Otto Meier

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Antje
18 years

 

Star sign:
Scorpio

Country of birth: GDR

Religion: none

lives alone

Brothers and sisters:
one brother, 13 y.

 

 

 

School:
Grammar school, didn't finish;
works as a photo model

Dream job:
"I live my dreams."

Role model:
the sea

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»Suddenly you notice what you can
achieve if you just smile.«

Excerpt:

I wasn't exactly pretty when I was younger. I looked more like a boy, had short hair, a turned-up nose, freckles all over my face and my clothes were always dirty. Then you reach puberty, let your hair grow because you think, you don't always want to look like one of the guys, that's crap! And all of a sudden, you're feminine and not such a  weird mixture any more. When you were at kindergarten, you always wondered anyway - funny, you thought, you haven't got a willy down there! And suddenly you notice what you can achieve if you just smile. You play with it and you recognise that you can hurt people or make them happy, just because you're there. That gives you a feeling of power and intense femininity, the way it's described in the old Celtic stories.

Yes, you have power! But just the same, you can still let go and give yourself to someone completely and be tender. And if I look at it that way, I see sexuality as the union of femininity and masculinity. It is simply part of life and influences you, your creativity, your self-confidence and naturally also your partner. You can give him trust, and also happiness. But you must be truthful, otherwise it won't work. Otherwise, it's just a lie, nothing but superficiality, and you don't feel good about it.

On the other hand, this superficial cliché about sexuality and femininity has always put me off; this, stick out your tits and waggle your arse! - this, man, is she sexy! That's probably why it took a while until I had my first boyfriend. ...

 

 

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