Babies

make mothers strong Joerg Otto Meier
    
Women on pregnancy and birth, fathers and children

 

 

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An exciting and informative book,
not only for women and mothers,
but also for men, fathers, midwives,
gynaecologists and others
who work in this field.

Joerg Otto Meier has portrayed 16 mothers
from every part of society and all
age groups. They tell their often dramatic
stories of pregnancy, birth and the time
that followed with amazing candour.
Sensitive colour photos ((black and
white in the book), which were taken
shortly before the conversations took
place, show the women with their babies.
Rowohlt Paperback, two-colour print,
192 pages, 21 x 15 cm, Euro 9,90
ISBN 3-499-60954-1
We are sorry!
This book is out of print since 2003.


Do babies make
mothers strong?
A selection of portraits: Click on the images
Franca Luca Ferris Carlos Levin
"Yes, because they don't have any choice."
Antje, midwife and mother

 

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From the foreword by Margarita Klein
(midwife and family therapist)

Women look at us: proudly, tenderly, joyfully, with greatseriousness, sometimes inquiringly. They have been photographed in the classical mother-child positions. And so each appears as the archetypal mother, but at the same time as something special, unmistakable. These mothers have not been represented in the aesthetically exaggerated manner of the past; they seem natural, the individuality of their expressions impresses us.

The texts make this clear too: the mother and child theme has been with us from time immemorial, but every generation and every woman interprets it differently.

Sixteen photos of women with their children and sixteen accompanying texts demonstrate clearly that every woman becomes a mother in her own unique way, that every woman goes her own way. They are touchingly candid about their experiences and feelings. They allow the reader to participate in them, they communicate them to us. Mothers have something to say.

It's usually experts who comment on pregnancy, birth, parenthood. Here every woman is respected as an expert on herself and her own life. When they are given time and space in an unprejudiced way, as Joerg Otto Meier has given them in these conversations, women can speak candidly, spontaneously and authentically.

This book passes on experiences.
It is a real treasure trove for
the expectant mother.

Here is a wealth of information and stories that do not set out to instruct. Women can decide for themselves what is useful in their own situation. Above all, this book shows that every woman finds her own unique way and the strength to take her chosen path, even if it is stony. If you're pregnant, read all the stories. Some may perhaps irritate you, others may calm you. Pay attention to how these women overcome even difficult situations, how they gain strength, where they get their confidence from. Let yourself be inspired by the small and large rituals which form the framework of motherhood. There are many different paths and you will be curious to find out which you will choose to follow.

This is also a valuable book for fathers. It could be that some of the changes your wife, you yourself and your relationship are going through seem strange to you. In this wealth of stories you might discover some aspects which are comparable to your life. Apart from that, you'll also find comments on the kind of behaviour women liked in their partners. You'll find ideas for yourself here. Or you can use the texts as a starting point for discussions with your partner and to find out what her wishes are.

And this is a book for experts. It inspires respect for the personal competence of pregnant women, those giving birth and mothers. Even if you have accompanied the process of pregnancy, birth and confinement hundreds of times in your capacity as mid-wife or doctor, it's a good idea to be reminded from time to time that there is always a whole person with her individual story behind it all, a person with her beliefs and values, with her weaknesses and very special abilities.

© Joerg Otto Meier, Babies make mothers strong